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i lost my scousin today.....he committed suicide....he stuck a 12 guage to his head.....i got on here to take my mind off of it......please pray for my family members.....this is realy bad......he has three kids and had divorce two times...marriage problems......please pray...

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Sorry to hear about that bobcat. I wish your family the best.

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sorry to hear that. i had 2 friends commit suicide in the last 2 yrs. hope your family the best.

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Bobcat, I know how you feel. I watched my little sister suffer for 3 1/2 years of organ problems before I watched her pass away. I know that this is very different than suicide but it is in the same ball-park. That happened 4.5 year ago and man, it just never gets easier. I hate to say that but it is true. Everyone told me that my life would go back to normal, but they lied and I won't lie to you. I will pray for your family and for you. If you will pm me I would like to know the names of your family and I can put them up for prayer at our LDS temples. I know that you are not mormon but you would be surprised at how often non-LDS people ask for this and then tell us that it helped. I would like to help you in any way possible.
please pm me or e-mail me at [email protected].
Please.
I am truely sorry for you, and I actually suggest going to grief therapy. It helps amazingly.

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I'll talk to you about this tomorrow bobcat. I think that in time it gets a little easier to deal with this kind of stuff. Now, j3 is 100% right that you will never feel the same, but with some help and prayer you can slowly learn to cope with it and eventually learn to deal with your problems. I also had a man that was VERY close to me pass away last year. He was as close to a dad that you could get without being realated to me at all. I live with my dad, but I loved James almost as much as I love my dad. He got some type of illness that was never diagnosed and he withered away. I loved James dearly and there is always a gap from where he was, but every time I pray about it it gets a little easier to deal with. BB

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bobcat, I'm sorry to hear about that. I wish you and your family strength to deal with this. :(

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I'm really sorry to hear that. I know what you are going through. I lost my grandpa and my dad(Gary) last month and less then two weeks apart. You , your family and his have my best hopes and wishes.

If its any comfort to you and anyone else. Although their body has departed, they always live on in your heart and mind.

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sorry to hear that, I'm praying.

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Bobcat i know how you feel. A few years ago i had a friend do that. It takes time for those wounds to heal, but they never completly heal. You will always remeber the good times. I will be praying for you. GOD BLESS

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How are you doing bobcat? Do you feel any better? I wish you the best. BB

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i'm very sorry... i too know what you are going through and wish you didn't have to bear such a pain... my thoughts are with you

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well i just got back from the visittation......it was rough..............they are going to barry him tommorrow..........thanks for all the help ya'll gave me to get thru this bad deal.......thanks....

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Try to keep your head up as best you can have no shame if you cry. I cried very much when i saw my dad once last time before he was cremated but no shame. It sucks to know that someone killed themselves let alone a family member from someone on here. If you need to talk to anyone and/or can't find a friendly ear, my msn is [email protected] if you have it.

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The viewing is always extremely difficult. Remember if you need help just ask for it on here or e-mail me at [email protected].
Hold your chin-up and remember him in his best moments!

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I'm really sorry to hear that bobcat. I think you know my email, but if you don't, here it is [email protected]. How are you feeling? Any better? I sure hope so. Stay strong bud. You'll make it out of this mess okay. I have confidence in you. Your bud, BB.

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well it is over ............we buried him to today.....man i busted out cryin when the oldest boy went up to put the rose on the casket....the boy started cryin to......tears was flyin then....the middle age boy does not know what is going on....i'm feeling better........thanks for all the talk guys and gals .....it has helped me get thru this hard time.......

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There is no shame in crying at the casket. To be honest, when they shut the lid on my beautiful baby sister, I bawled my eyes off. I couldn't leave the grave site for another 1 1/2 hours after everyone else left.

By me crying this is significant and I assume that it is the same with you. I never have cried in public before then or after, but I am proud to say that I bawled like a baby at that moment.
Good luck,
j3k

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We lost our brother to a wanabe gang a year and a half ago.He was drowned, and no one was convicted. All my Dad can think about is getting back at them, but all of them are still in hiding. I know how you feel I also lost a baby sister when I was ten years old. Then three years ago my Mom split with my Dad and is with a drug adict son of a B*#@$. I know people say"Try to forget about it, just hold a special place in your heart for them" But that doesnt work, most people wont ever get over it, I know I wont. Just hang in there and remember were here for you and a lot of us have been in your shoes. Take it easy.

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hey evryone on this post i jus want all of u to kno that i'm prayin for all ur loved ones who died. we are the strong ones for sittin here talkin bout it my best wishes to all of u. we have all had or share of tuff times.

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Sorry to hear that, I know as well as anyone how much it hurts to lose a loved one.[:'(]

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Sorry man!

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I will pray for your family. I feel so sorry for you. I just lost my great grandma. She died of cancer. I wached her die.

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sorry,:(:(:(:(

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thanks pse archer....he needs all the prayers he can get.....