what women like in men
 

i was just wonderin what women look at in men and what they look for in one

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ok what i dont understand is y people ask for dating advice on a hunting website?? no offence mossberg

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That's a valid question, but there's really no concrete answer. We girls are all different and all looking for different things in a man. But in general I don't think we are as focused on physical characteristics as guys might be.

Having a car is good, doesn't matter much what kind. Having a job is also really good. Of course you can always find girls that are willing to support their man. Maturity is a real plus I guess. A reasonable sense of humor is also good.

Some of the things that you think should impress us but don't impress us very much. I'm speaking generally here.

Your truck or car.
Your athletic abilities.
Your hunting trophies.
How many fights you've won.

Does that help?

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pretty desprate if youre asking on this website

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i look for a lot of things

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dude no way its more like what your should be loking for. a chick who is hot. hasa jobnad is motivated and also if she is on birth control that is a 0plus. dont go changing youself cuz of what ppl on the god damn computer say man. be who you are and if ppl dont like it then they can kiss your ass. thats how i roll and i dont give a crap. i bet if you ask hooker, aka bubbahoo he would say the same damn thing.

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that is how i am too and everyone should be like this and not care what ppl think of them

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For me personally, you have to make me laugh. I use humor extensively to stay sane, so if you don't have me rolling, you don't have a chance. I don't care how much money you have, but it would be really nice to be taken care of once and a while, but for the most part I'm wildly independant and will take care of myself. If you give me an attitude, I'll give one back, probably worse, so my men generally have to be prepared for that too. This has been the cause of many unhappy returns :D

All women look for differen things. Some women look for guys who will treat them bad, and that makes them happy. Others look for men that they can just use, and that makes them happy.

How about you find out instead what interests YOU, what TYPE of woman you like. Don't change yourself for one of us, we're not worth it. [&:][8D]

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Comparing Alyssa and me illustrates perfectly why you can't make any blanket statements about what women look for in men. My husband and I both have a sense of humor, bizarre at times. But mostly we tend to be fairly serious. We hardly ever watch TV. Like we have never seen American Idol or any of those reality shows, which I gatherare very popular.

I like being taken care of and I'm anything but wildly independent. It's not exactly politically correct for a girl to admit it but I'm actually fairly submissive. You would think my mom, having given birth at 15 and been a single working mom all her life would be wildly independent but she's about as submissive as I am. Her true self has come out since she got married last summer. :D Of course there was also the time she threw her boyfriend's stuff out on the sidewalk and ran him out of the house threatening to kill him with a hedge trimmer. (Not the guy she married,)

And there are girls who will work to support a guy who lays around the house all day watching TV, then goes out drinking, comes home drunk and slaps her around, or worse.

I don't try to conform to what I think my husband wants and he doesn't try to conform to what I want either. We spent about five months getting to know what each other was all about before there was any physical contact. And by that I mean no kissing, no petting, nothing. Of course, when the time was right, it happened.

So I guess you just look for somebody you like who is looking for somebody like you. And don't try to conform to what you think someone else wants in a mate. That will turn into the kiss of death for your relationship.

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aint dating advice i got a girlfriend i was just bored and was wonderin

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o ok

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thats what they all say;)

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wow how funny:D

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1) personality (if your boring or a jerkit doesn't matter how hot you are, it isn't going to work out)

2)smarts (if i may as well be talking to a fence post then it still isn't going to work out)

3) looks (hey i din't say they werent important (if youlook like some dirty scruffy hippie, thats nasty and you should take a bath and get a hair cut)

4) don't stop trying(just because you have the girl, doesn't mean you can stop trying, you can get boring real quick if you act like a bum when your in the relation ship)

5) do nice things(the favour is always returned)

6) USE IT OR LOSE IT! (you know what im talking about, if you don't use it, you will probably lose the girl)

-CC

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DAMN IT! im lackingin those firstthree areas [:@]this is justa bad news day for melol

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lol
i am saving for marriage

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Saving what?

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im not gonna be a @ss and pressure my women into doing stuff i do it if she wants to

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Good For you man! Thats like a number one pet peeve of mine! No means no! lol

But as far as what girls like, for about the 5th time Depends who it is lol

Personally thou....

As much as i would like to say this isn't important to truth is looks is a number one; it's what attracts you to a person. I believe that it is most important to always be attracted to the person your with also I NEED someone who can make me laugh, I couldn't go a day with no laugher. I love crazy people lol to have someone keep up with me is a must lol Having things in common is nice but not too much I like alone time. Overall though I would have to say I would need to know that they need me as much as I need them. I've been in a relationships that I want them more and ones they've wanted me more, both ways blow lol I'd have to trust them too!!! Which is more me then them ... but theres always a reason for not trusting someone so I donno! Thats that thou!

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That's good. I think I've mentioned that I only had one date with two different guys when I was 14. Most of the time was spent resisting their attempts to reach inside my shirt. I don't even know why they were doing it unless it was to see if I'm really as flat as I look.

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What is really important to me is being able to talk. He tells me all about the law and the stuff he's learning and I tell him about the biological stuff I'm into. Then we talk about politics and try to solve the world's problems, etc. :D

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lmao

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that trust deal is sketchy at best. w/ me its not really that i dont trust a grl but when they go out w/ their friends its other guys i dont trust....i dunno maybe im too protective but thats seems to be the casemost of the time w/ me. i know she/her will do her part but back to the 'no means no" thing some guys dont get it, especially if their drinkin

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Mossy,

Here is the Hooker guide to women:

1) Make a woman sincerely laugh. I'm not talking about making her chuckle. Make her laugh like she laughs only with her girlfriends. The girls know what I am talking about.

2) DO NOT CATER TO HER EVERY NEED. I know I sound like an ass when I say that, but women like strong men. If you just cater, you will quickly become "just a friend". Don't be that guy.

3) When talking to a woman, keep the conversation on her. Always try to end your statement with a question for her. Women like talking about themselves, even if they deny it, which they will.

4) Don't try too hard, but also don't do too little.

5) When talking to a woman, stay on topics that you have knowledge of. If she begins to venture onto something that you know nothing about, change the subject quickly. The trick is to appear more intelligent than you really are.

6) Make fun of her. Especially if she is hot and is used to men treating her like a goddess.

7) And lastly, like everyone else here has mentioned. Do not try to be something you are not. If you aren't that funny, don't try to be funny. If you aren't that cool, don't try to be cool. Play the cards that you were given.

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pretty much what i would say too

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didnt we go over all this stuff before in another thread that was exactly the same thing? grl help or somethin i think it was??

i think hooker pretty well covered it for ya butone important thing i think he left out is eye contact. you have to look them in the eye. if your shifty eyed or staring at the ground you look like your either hiding somethin, lieing or unsure of yourself. CONFIDANCEA IS KEY also if you take her someplace dont be flirting w/ other girls, like waitresses and such, if she sees this on the first date then shes likley to get the impression that you think w/ your stick and she wont be able to trust you. usually a deal closer for most women w/ any brains

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no comprendo

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didnt know anout the catering to her nned thing
if im an idiot forsay what do i act like around her?

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say that again w/ less jiberish lol

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Here is a fine example of this rule from myself:

When you are an idiot, impress women with your vast knowledge of mustard and steak sauce.

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lmao if you had squirted the musturd on her shirt she would have had no choice but to remove it. good thinkin'!

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allright
before i said
didnt know about the not catering to her every need thing. what do i cater and not cater to?
if im an idiot forsay what how do i act around her?

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Well...obviously you still need to be a "nice" guy, but you can't let a girl run all over you. Knowing when a girl really needs your help with something and when she is just using for something comes with experience. Once you get used a few times, you start to figure it out.


That depends on what you mean by "idiot". If you mean that you are goofy, then be goofy. If you mean you have the intelligence of a rock, then use the girl's maternal instincts in your favor; study date.

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Hell, im right here!!!!!

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Lmao! Techincally your over there.

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I know what your saying because it's the same thing for girls and their bfs but the thing is if you truely trust someone you should know that even if the guys won't quit, your girl won't go for it. ALSO if she respects you then one she won't hangout with them alone and two tell them to screw off.

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Dont be gettin technical!!

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I'm so sorry but it's a little to late. ha ha

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So, your still being technical!!!

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And enjoying every moment of it.