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daddyshuntingirl 04-17-2008 05:46 PM

If you dont want to help DONT READ
 
hey how do i deal with my best friend backstabing u,your ex that u r
still friends with being a really jerk and loseing your best friend
over another best friend being to coontrolling? can you plez help me i
dont know what to do i need help Thanks

Mary Harris

Rory/MO 04-17-2008 05:51 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
wow thats a lot

daddyshuntingirl 04-17-2008 05:53 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
ya i know i need help to fix it

Michigan hunter14 04-17-2008 06:31 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
I would like to help, but I cant understand anything you just said.

skybuster20ga 04-17-2008 06:33 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
thats def a jumbled mess of words that dont make any complete sentences but ide say if they were you real friends this wouldnt be an issue.......you seem to have lotsa drama lol

AmateurHunter44857 04-17-2008 07:14 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
Heres a solution to ALL of your problems, first, learn some grammar. Second, learn how to make sentences and paragraphs. Third, get some new friends, Fourth, how do i say this nicely... this is junior high drama that most of us could really care less about because its just that, junior high drama. The suicide thread was a serious thread and not full of junior high drama, that means it was an excellent thread and we care. This is a bunch of junior high kids that are still very immature. I don't think many of us really care about your backstabbing ex stabbing your backstabbing friend in the back while back stabbing the backstabber who backstabbed the first backstabber and bingo was his name O.

Rory/MO 04-17-2008 07:18 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: AmateurHunter44857

Heres a solution to ALL of your problems, first, learn some grammar. Second, learn how to make sentences and paragraphs. Third, get some new friends, Fourth, how do i say this nicely... this is junior high drama that most of us could really care less about because its just that, junior high drama. The suicide thread was a serious thread and not full of junior high drama, that means it was an excellent thread and we care. This is a bunch of junior high kids that are still very immature. I don't think many of us really care about your backstabbing ex stabbing your backstabbing friend in the back while back stabbing the backstabber who backstabbed the first backstabber and bingo was his name O.

what suicide thread?
i missed it? i wanted to help!!
can i have a link?

AmateurHunter44857 04-17-2008 10:41 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: xXxrory7xXx


ORIGINAL: AmateurHunter44857

Heres a solution to ALL of your problems, first, learn some grammar. Second, learn how to make sentences and paragraphs. Third, get some new friends, Fourth, how do i say this nicely... this is junior high drama that most of us could really care less about because its just that, junior high drama. The suicide thread was a serious thread and not full of junior high drama, that means it was an excellent thread and we care. This is a bunch of junior high kids that are still very immature. I don't think many of us really care about your backstabbing ex stabbing your backstabbing friend in the back while back stabbing the backstabber who backstabbed the first backstabber and bingo was his name O.

what suicide thread?
i missed it? i wanted to help!!
can i have a link?
Its entitled I looked at Rory's face :D

Rory/MO 04-18-2008 04:52 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: AmateurHunter44857


ORIGINAL: xXxrory7xXx


ORIGINAL: AmateurHunter44857

Heres a solution to ALL of your problems, first, learn some grammar. Second, learn how to make sentences and paragraphs. Third, get some new friends, Fourth, how do i say this nicely... this is junior high drama that most of us could really care less about because its just that, junior high drama. The suicide thread was a serious thread and not full of junior high drama, that means it was an excellent thread and we care. This is a bunch of junior high kids that are still very immature. I don't think many of us really care about your backstabbing ex stabbing your backstabbing friend in the back while back stabbing the backstabber who backstabbed the first backstabber and bingo was his name O.

what suicide thread?
i missed it? i wanted to help!!
can i have a link?
Its entitled I looked at Rory's face :D
oh ya i remember seeing that post now:D

mossberghunter93 04-18-2008 06:28 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: xXxrory7xXx

wow thats a lot
exactly as i would say it i think i would have trouble gettin into that situaion

Hooker 04-18-2008 06:30 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: daddyshuntingirl

hey how do i deal with my best friend backstabing u,your ex that u r
still friends with being a really jerk and loseing your best friend
over another best friend being to coontrolling? can you plez help me i
dont know what to do i need help Thanks
Uh...what?

Canadian Chic 04-18-2008 08:11 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: daddyshuntingirl

hey how do i deal with my best friend backstabing u,your ex that u r
still friends with being a really jerk and loseing your best friend
over another best friend being to coontrolling? can you plez help me i
dont know what to do i need help Thanks

Mary Harris
1)Best friend backstabbing you

- call them on it, if they say they didn't do it and you know for an absolute fact that they did, then they are lying to you, and best friends don't do that so therefore she isn't being a true best friend. tell her you know what they said/did for a fact explain it to them, and you can usually tell from their reaction whether they are guilty or not.
-if you don't know for an absolute fact that they did it, give them the benifit of the doubt, after all you are calling them your best friend, so just ask them about but don't accuse. accusing is the worst thing you can do if your not absolutely sure about something. because if your wrong, your going to hurt them and your going to get hurt in the end too.

2) Ex bf being a jerk when you are supposed to be friends

-ignore him. respond as little as possible to him. don't call him let him call you. if he was being a jerk that day and he calls you, tell him you are busy and can't talk. if you ignore him, he will want to talk more. or you guys will slowly become separated and slowly make other friends, which as bad as it sounds might be a good thing in the end.

3)Losing a best friend over one thats being controlling

- If they are trulyyour best friend, they will know where to draw the line with the other person. Its great to have a bunch of friends, but that is when you begin to learn the value of sharing your time with everyone, or others begin to feel left out. some people have a really hard time with this concept and it may take a long time to overcome the problem. its alright to tell her how you feel, but don't begin to tell her what to do, or you will end up like the other person you are talking about.you just have to be patient and see what she decideds.

-CC

mossberghunter93 04-18-2008 08:14 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: Canadian Chic


ORIGINAL: daddyshuntingirl

hey how do i deal with my best friend backstabing u,your ex that u r
still friends with being a really jerk and loseing your best friend
over another best friend being to coontrolling? can you plez help me i
dont know what to do i need help Thanks

Mary Harris
1)Best friend backstabbing you

- call them on it, if they say they didn't do it and you know for an absolute fact that they did, then they are lying to you, and best friends don't do that so therefore she isn't being a true best friend. tell her you know what they said/did for a fact explain it to them, and you can usually tell from their reaction whether they are guilty or not.
-if you don't know for an absolute fact that they did it, give them the benifit of the doubt, after all you are calling them your best friend, so just ask them about but don't accuse. accusing is the worst thing you can do if your not absolutely sure about something. because if your wrong, your going to hurt them and your going to get hurt in the end too.

2) Ex bf being a jerk when you are supposed to be friends

-ignore him. respond as little as possible to him. don't call him let him call you. if he was being a jerk that day and he calls you, tell him you are busy and can't talk. if you ignore him, he will want to talk more. or you guys will slowly become separated and slowly make other friends, which as bad as it sounds might be a good thing in the end.

3)Losing a best friend over one thats being controlling

- If they are trulyyour best friend, they will know where to draw the line with the other person. Its great to have a bunch of friends, but that is when you begin to learn the value of sharing your time with everyone, or others begin to feel left out. some people have a really hard time with this concept and it may take a long time to overcome the problem. its alright to tell her how you feel, but don't begin to tell her what to do, or you will end up like the other person you are talking about.you just have to be patient and see what she decideds.

-CC
you should be a phyciatrist or a relationships councelor :D

Canadian Chic 04-18-2008 08:17 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: mossberghunter93

you should be a phyciatrist or a relationships councelor :D

lol, no im not that good at that kind of thing lol. ive just put up with these problems before

-CC

skybuster20ga 04-18-2008 08:58 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
that was deep dr. phil. hahhaa can you help me, i came home drunk, my g/f slept on the couch and my neighbors preggers and we dont know if its mine or the shwans mans?? what do i do?!!

AmateurHunter44857 04-18-2008 10:08 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: skybuster20ga

that was deep dr. phil. hahhaa can you help me, i came home drunk, my g/f slept on the couch and my neighbors preggers and we dont know if its mine or the shwans mans?? what do i do?!!
Run Away and never come back :D

andy da animal 04-18-2008 10:18 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: AmateurHunter44857


ORIGINAL: skybuster20ga

that was deep dr. phil. hahhaa can you help me, i came home drunk, my g/f slept on the couch and my neighbors preggers and we dont know if its mine or the shwans mans?? what do i do?!!
Run Away and never come back :D
nobody have a one night stand with AH! [8D]:D

AmateurHunter44857 04-18-2008 10:21 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: andy da animal


ORIGINAL: AmateurHunter44857


ORIGINAL: skybuster20ga

that was deep dr. phil. hahhaa can you help me, i came home drunk, my g/f slept on the couch and my neighbors preggers and we dont know if its mine or the shwans mans?? what do i do?!!
Run Away and never come back :D
nobody have a one night stand with AH! [8D]:D
I got to meet someone interested in me first [8D]:D

andy da animal 04-18-2008 10:24 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
thank god! ok all women, are safe! ;):Dj/k

AmateurHunter44857 04-18-2008 10:26 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
..... ouch andy
that really hurt :(:(:(:(:(:(:(

andy da animal 04-18-2008 10:29 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
sorry buddy! you know you woulda stabbed me in the same spot if i woulda turned my back to you! ;):D really they are safe....for now.....you talk to them then they are in danger!:eek:

AmateurHunter44857 04-18-2008 10:31 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
I'm not talking to you:(:(:(:(:(:(

andy da animal 04-18-2008 10:33 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
you are talking to me on yahoo right now!

really buddy, you know im playing! deep breath and your good!

now self esteem and your set!;):D

Centauri 04-18-2008 02:50 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: AmateurHunter44857

Heres a solution to ALL of your problems, first, learn some grammar. Second, learn how to make sentences and paragraphs. Third, get some new friends, Fourth, how do i say this nicely... this is junior high drama that most of us could really care less about because its just that, junior high drama. The suicide thread was a serious thread and not full of junior high drama, that means it was an excellent thread and we care. This is a bunch of junior high kids that are still very immature. I don't think many of us really care about your backstabbing ex stabbing your backstabbing friend in the back while back stabbing the backstabber who backstabbed the first backstabber and bingo was his name O.
Im with you.

Daddyshuntingirl, I mean this in a respectful way,and I need to say this because this is becomming an issue, and just plain annoying. You have got to stop comming to us with your boyfriend/friend issues. Its all I hear out of you is "lol, my bfis ajerk because he dumped me, and now im sad. can u guyz plez help me?, lol" None of us really want to hear it. You are supposed to deal with this, not us.

daddyshuntingirl 04-18-2008 03:47 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: Centauri


ORIGINAL: AmateurHunter44857

Heres a solution to ALL of your problems, first, learn some grammar. Second, learn how to make sentences and paragraphs. Third, get some new friends, Fourth, how do i say this nicely... this is junior high drama that most of us could really care less about because its just that, junior high drama. The suicide thread was a serious thread and not full of junior high drama, that means it was an excellent thread and we care. This is a bunch of junior high kids that are still very immature. I don't think many of us really care about your backstabbing ex stabbing your backstabbing friend in the back while back stabbing the backstabber who backstabbed the first backstabber and bingo was his name O.
Im with you.

Daddyshuntingirl, I mean this in a respectful way,and I need to say this because this is becomming an issue, and just plain annoying. You have got to stop comming to us with your boyfriend/friend issues. Its all I hear out of you is "lol, my bfis ajerk because he dumped me, and now im sad. can u guyz plez help me?, lol" None of us really want to hear it. You are supposed to deal with this, not us.
I try but if u dont want to help then dont i try to fix them but i cant idk y but i cant[:@]:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(

Centauri 04-18-2008 03:50 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
You missed the point. You can't keep comming to us with your boyfriend/friend issues. Look a little harder in my post. And learn grammer. I can't read anything you say.

daddyshuntingirl 04-18-2008 03:54 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
I try to fix it and i ask my mom and she is likeI dont know fix it yourself and so i come to people who want to help if you dont want to help then dont post on it;)[&:][:@]

Centauri 04-18-2008 04:58 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
Again, you missed the point. I'll say it again. You have to stop comming to us with your own personal problems. Its not our job to make it all better. What can we really do? We don't even know who your friends are. And learn grammer. My 5 year old brother's grammer is better than yours.

daddyshuntingirl 04-18-2008 07:21 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
all i need is advise and idc if i spell bad on the computer i use short cuts and idc

AmateurHunter44857 04-18-2008 09:02 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
The point he and I are trying to make is life is full of drama,you have to find a way to deal with it yourself. If i came to you guys with every little problem i had, this forum would be filled with my problems. You seem to take every petty problem you have and turn it into a serious problem when its not. You also have made 2 threads in the last couple days about junior high drama, not serious problems. You have to learn how to distinguish a serious problem (friend talking about suicide) from a petty problem (backstabbbing backstabbers/your current b/f).

Also i know huntingirl89 and i before have told you that you never take the advice you ask for. I mean seriously when you posted your thread about your b/f hitting you, did you HONESTLY think anyone was going to tell you to stay with him? You knew what we were going to say, thus why waste time asking? We tell you what you should expect to hear and then you find every reason in the book to NOT listen to the advice. It's getting kind of old and we are all getting tired of giving you advice that goes in one ear and out the other.

Michigan hunter14 04-18-2008 11:44 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
http://www.teenspot.com/boards/


Maybe you should join this board and see if they can help.

daddyshuntingirl 04-19-2008 03:32 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: AmateurHunter44857

The point he and I are trying to make is life is full of drama,you have to find a way to deal with it yourself. If i came to you guys with every little problem i had, this forum would be filled with my problems. You seem to take every petty problem you have and turn it into a serious problem when its not. You also have made 2 threads in the last couple days about junior high drama, not serious problems. You have to learn how to distinguish a serious problem (friend talking about suicide) from a petty problem (backstabbbing backstabbers/your current b/f).

Also i know huntingirl89 and i before have told you that you never take the advice you ask for. I mean seriously when you posted your thread about your b/f hitting you, did you HONESTLY think anyone was going to tell you to stay with him? You knew what we were going to say, thus why waste time asking? We tell you what you should expect to hear and then you find every reason in the book to NOT listen to the advice. It's getting kind of old and we are all getting tired of giving you advice that goes in one ear and out the other.
I do to listen i try it and most of the time it dont work

daddyshuntingirl 04-19-2008 03:33 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: Michigan hunter14

http://www.teenspot.com/boards/


Maybe you should join this board and see if they can help.
what do u do there?

Rory/MO 04-19-2008 03:56 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
I LOVE LAMP

Centauri 04-19-2008 04:41 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: daddyshuntingirl


ORIGINAL: Michigan hunter14

http://www.teenspot.com/boards/


Maybe you should join this board and see if they can help.
what do u do there?
Hmm, lets think here for a moment. Its obviously is a message board for people like you. And from what Michigan hunter14 said, it seems like a place where you can get help for your issues, which leads me to believe that it is a message board where you can post your issues, and get answers!!!

sachiko 04-19-2008 05:23 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: daddyshuntingirl


ORIGINAL: AmateurHunter44857

The point he and I are trying to make is life is full of drama,you have to find a way to deal with it yourself. If i came to you guys with every little problem i had, this forum would be filled with my problems. You seem to take every petty problem you have and turn it into a serious problem when its not. You also have made 2 threads in the last couple days about junior high drama, not serious problems. You have to learn how to distinguish a serious problem (friend talking about suicide) from a petty problem (backstabbbing backstabbers/your current b/f).

Also i know huntingirl89 and i before have told you that you never take the advice you ask for. I mean seriously when you posted your thread about your b/f hitting you, did you HONESTLY think anyone was going to tell you to stay with him? You knew what we were going to say, thus why waste time asking? We tell you what you should expect to hear and then you find every reason in the book to NOT listen to the advice. It's getting kind of old and we are all getting tired of giving you advice that goes in one ear and out the other.
I do to listen i try it and most of the time it dont work
Okay here's my advice and I guarantee you that it will work.

Forget about guys until you're old enough tofind someone you want to marry. Until then you're wasting your time and energy.

There you are. Easy to follow solution.





daddyshuntingirl 04-19-2008 06:54 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: daddyslittlegirl


ORIGINAL: daddyshuntingirl


ORIGINAL: AmateurHunter44857

The point he and I are trying to make is life is full of drama,you have to find a way to deal with it yourself. If i came to you guys with every little problem i had, this forum would be filled with my problems. You seem to take every petty problem you have and turn it into a serious problem when its not. You also have made 2 threads in the last couple days about junior high drama, not serious problems. You have to learn how to distinguish a serious problem (friend talking about suicide) from a petty problem (backstabbbing backstabbers/your current b/f).

Also i know huntingirl89 and i before have told you that you never take the advice you ask for. I mean seriously when you posted your thread about your b/f hitting you, did you HONESTLY think anyone was going to tell you to stay with him? You knew what we were going to say, thus why waste time asking? We tell you what you should expect to hear and then you find every reason in the book to NOT listen to the advice. It's getting kind of old and we are all getting tired of giving you advice that goes in one ear and out the other.
I do to listen i try it and most of the time it dont work
Okay here's my advice and I guarantee you that it will work.

Forget about guys until you're old enough tofind someone you want to marry. Until then you're wasting your time and energy.

There you are. Easy to follow solution.




I will try

AmateurHunter44857 04-19-2008 07:35 PM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: daddyshuntingirl


ORIGINAL: AmateurHunter44857

The point he and I are trying to make is life is full of drama,you have to find a way to deal with it yourself. If i came to you guys with every little problem i had, this forum would be filled with my problems. You seem to take every petty problem you have and turn it into a serious problem when its not. You also have made 2 threads in the last couple days about junior high drama, not serious problems. You have to learn how to distinguish a serious problem (friend talking about suicide) from a petty problem (backstabbbing backstabbers/your current b/f).

Also i know huntingirl89 and i before have told you that you never take the advice you ask for. I mean seriously when you posted your thread about your b/f hitting you, did you HONESTLY think anyone was going to tell you to stay with him? You knew what we were going to say, thus why waste time asking? We tell you what you should expect to hear and then you find every reason in the book to NOT listen to the advice. It's getting kind of old and we are all getting tired of giving you advice that goes in one ear and out the other.
I do to listen i try it and most of the time it dont work
does it not work because its bad advice or does it not work because you don't want it to? If all we ever give you is bad advice and it never works why do you keep asking for it?

daddyshuntingirl 04-21-2008 07:11 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 
no people just dont listen

Canadian Chic 04-21-2008 08:56 AM

RE: I need Help agian lol
 

ORIGINAL: daddyshuntingirl

no people just dont listen
ok you know what! you ask people here questions, and everyone gives you their two cents. no one here knows you personally as far as i know, so giving you advice is the best we can do. you asked us what you should do when your bf hit you, we said leave him! you asked us why guys like to break girls hearts, we said they don't! what do you want us to say? that the world is perfect? well its not!

you should listen to michigan hunter 14 about the website. if things aren't going great at home and you mom tells you to deal with stuff on your own all the time, unfortunatley that means your going to have to learn how to do that. there are lots of people to talk to the are school councellers, there are people you can call that are cut out to help on these issues, etc.

i know this seems mean. but its now that we don't care its just that your problems are becoming a little much for the advice that we can give you.

-CC


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