WAT A GOOD MOOD IME IN TODAY.......I FOUND THE PERFECT GIRL......SHE HUNTS, LOVES MOTORCYCLES, SHE'S HOT,SHE LOVES THE SAME MUSIC I DOOOO..SHE LOVES EVERYTHING I DO..SHE LIKE "THE ONE"!!!!!!!! OK ANYWAY.....DOES ANYONEHAVE ANY TIPS FOR AN OL' DOG THAT BEEN OUTTA THE GAME FOR A WHILE PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!! QUIK HOMECOMINGS NEXT WEEK, AND I WANNA TAKE HER!!!!!

Talk to her some more, get closer, then ask her to go to homecoming with you. Try something along the lines of "Look, we've gotten really close and I really like you so I was wondering if you'd like to go to homecoming with me?" Go get em killer!

Spend as much time with her as possible, if she likes you back you will have a good shot at getting her to go to homecoming with you. Good Luck man!

ditto. spending time with a girl will help alot. they find just spending time together very very important. that's how my girlfriend is.

ps. good job on finding a girl that loves to hunt. my girlfriend doesn't have a problem with it but i haven't gotten her in the woods yet.

Thanx alot guys

whoa there big guy, not so fast... that line would get no where except scare her away because all she'll think is that you want to get inbetween the sheets. just get to know her. be yourself. be confident but not overly confident. women respond when you respond to them. tell her you think she's beautiful. tell her everything you've told us. we love compliments and never hear enough of them. especially if they're true!! be honest!!! touch her face when you get closer to her, that tells her you care about her. you'll find the face in females the very means of communication. look into her eyes when you talk to her, not down. most of all LISTEN to what she has to say... most guys are so stuck in dream world when they're talking to a woman that all they can say is "uhhhhh" when she stops talking. don't assume she's the one just yet, from what it sounds you've only just met. theres still a lot to learn about a person. it took me years to learn everything there is about my beau and i still have my doubts sometimes.

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Ask her if she wants to go out for some pizza and sex. If she gets offended, say,"What? Dont like pizza?" Jk, ill probably get an email for that but o well. Sorry redhawk. Anyway, dont be fake with her. Be yourself, dont use lines, just go up and ask her. If you beat around the bush a whole lot she wont take you serious.

First things first. Don't worry about asking her out yet. Worry about getting her to go to the dance. After you've got that out of the way and you've gotten to know her a bit, then think about asking her to 'go steady.'

Problem one, asking her to homecoming.

Considering this isn't Prom and you don't know her really well, I wouldn't try to get all cutesy with her. Just the standard walk up, ask her if she's going with anyone, if not does she want to go with you approach should work. If she's interested in you, she'll say yes. If she's not, she'll either lie and tell you she's already got a date or she'll flat out shoot you down.

If you don't like the thought of just walking up to her and asking her, for whatever reason, call her. Use the same approach. Are you going with anyone? Would you like to go with me? Same deal, she'll either say yes or no. The worst she can do is tell you no. It's better to know she's not interested in you now than it is to spend a lot of time worrying about it only to find out she's hooked up with someone else down the road.

Problem two, dinner and riding to the dance.

So you're at her house picking her up. Chances are she or her parents will invite you in. Compliment her, but be sincere about it. Don't look at your feet when you do it. Don't look over her shoulder or above her head. Look into her eyes and compliment her sincerely. She'll love this. Tell her you like her dress, the way she did her hair, etc, etc. Not only will she be impressed with you so will her mom if she's around.

Don't act nervous. If mom and dad want to talk, talk. Don't focus just on the girl, actually act interested in what the parents are talking with you about. Be a bit of a suck up, but not so much that the parents think you're a smart ass. Be agreeable. If the parents say she's got a 10:00 curfew, say no problem and make sure she's home by 10:00. Not a minute later.

Considering what you've told us, you've both got a lot in common. You should have no problem thinking of things to say and talk about during dinner. You both like hunting, talk about that. She likes motorcycles, talk about that. Talk about the bands you both like. Maybe invite her to an upcoming show. Inviting her to a show kills to birds with one stone. You'll not only be talking about something you both enjoy, but you've just opened the door for a second and possibly further dates.

You want her to think about you later on? Mention something that she may see from time to time around town. This can be a little white lie, but hear me out. Say you're in the market for a new vehicle. You're looking to buy a new truck maybe, ask her if she knows of anyone with a specific model for sale. We'll go ahead and say you're looking for a Ford F150. They're fairly common, I see at least a dozen on the way to school every day. She may know someone, she may not, it doesn't matter. What does matter is now, when she's driving around town, if she notices a Ford F150 in a parking lot or the next lane, whatever, she'll automatically think of you.

I stress the point that it doesn't matter if you're actually looking for one or not. Tell her you are. If she finds one for sale and mentions it to you later on, just tell her you've decided you can't really afford one right now, but thanks for letting you know. This works.

You neglected to mention how old you are, so I don't know if you drive or if you would have to catch a ride with a parent or friend. If riding with a parent, just pretend they're not there. If you start thinking about what mom or dad is thinking of the conversation you'll get nervous and clam up. She won't like that. Don't do that. If you drive or are riding with a friend, no big deal, don't worry about it.

Problem three, you're at the dance.

If you can't dance (fast dancing, not slow dancing), tell her up front. Better to let her know now than to embarass yourself and consquently your date on the dance floor. She should be cool with this.

You can slow dance. Everyone can slow dance. Make sure you dance with her during every one. Get closer during each dance. Not too close, but close enough. You'll know what close enough is when you're dancing.

Problem four, the dance is over, you're dropping her off.

Walk her to the door. Don't just let her out of the car and take off. Make sure you walk her to the door. Tell her you had a great time. Compliment her again. Same rules apply. Look into her eyes when you compliment her.

The big question, do you kiss her or not? That's completely up to you. It all depends on how you feel. Some girls don't mind kissing after something like this, some do. It's a judement call, and not one I can really help with.





Alright, so that's a bit of help. Things I've learned over the past few years. Learn them, apply them, enjoy them. More than anything, have fun. This is highschool, things aren't supposed to be taken completely 100% serious. Have a good time with her, make her feel good, and go with the flow.

washington great advice!!!! that should very helpful for alot of people on here. i may use some of it.