GIRLS!
 

What would you do if you ask a girl out and you toke her somewhere and
she just wanted to go to that place than go with you. Like you toke her
to the movies and she just went to see the movie with you ,but she just
went to see the movie. I can't put it in words ,but ya'll know what I mean.[:@][:@][:@]

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Oh, I read the post wrong. She is using you.

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It's not obvious? If she just went for the movie, she's using you. End it.

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that's how it seems to me. but you never know...

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Yes! she was using me. But what would you do

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Tell her to find someone else to use.

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Tell her to go away.

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Depends how hot she is;)

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two things. She's either using you, which is bad. But, she may also just have wanted to go see the movie, In that case, give her another chance, whats wrong with just having a friend thats a girl. .

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Sounds like she is using you

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How do you know she is using you? Now that I re-read your post. How do you know she didnt just get really into the movie or something? I dont know, I would give her one more chance.

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Something I just want to point out...

Though TV and movies tend to make the first date a generally movie oriented date, it's been my experience that movie dates usually don't lead to second dates.

First dates are the ones where you want to get to know each other. If you've known each other for a while, then a movie is OK. But if you've just recently met, dinner and a walk through the park or browsing around downtown is generally a good date. This allows the two of you to talk. At a movie you're both concentrating on watching the film, which leaves no time to get to know one another.

Just a tip.

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I was just about ready to say something about movie dates but WH already said it. One date idea is just go for a drink at the local starbucks or some place where you can talk.

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yup. but if you really like her then give her another chance. like red hawk and wh said, this time take her someplace you can talk and not just watch a movie.

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i agree about the no movie thing. movies are a bad choice. just like milk. fans of anchorman will get the subtle joke.

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Thanks for the tip!

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That was great. Bow Man, tell her that your apartment smells of rich mahogany and that you own many leather bound books. And people know you, your a big deal. :D

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also be sure to use the BLACK PANTHER body spray... you know the type... the bottle growls when you open it RAR

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I'll have to remember that one sis :)

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thats what i would do (to a guy if he did that cause im a chic)

Chic

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I agree. If shes out of your league I would let her use me all she wants. [:-]

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hmmmm..... so its the body that counts..... no wonder i can't keep a man:(

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Okay gotta step in and stand up for my sis....HG....If a man doesn't want you, or a girl for the heart and mind, then the guy doesn't deserve you or any of the girls that come in here :)

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Im just talking about in the mind of a guy under 18 HG. I know that personal qualitys pay off in long term relationships. But obviously ppl our age dont have many long term relationships, mainly relationships based on sexual preference. My name is Dr. Phil.

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WOMEN: cant live with em, cant live without em

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If she's hot, return the favor... if not, drop her off at ur giant overgrown, hairy friend that cant get a date to save his life's, house :D

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keep her around man... My first date with my current gf was to the movies and nothing happend, not even a kiss. Then two days later we were all over each other, lol. Don't worry about not getting anywhere on the first time out, maybe ask her out to somewhere where you can get to know her better like some other people suggested.

Give it time, and if it doesn't work out, don't worry. There are plenty of girls out there, so why your time with a girl that's not interested in you or visa/vera.

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yea drop her she isnt worth it!

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we can't be that bad:eek:

CC

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No, we're just that GOOD!lol

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NO COMMENT

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I READ THE WRONG POSTS LET IT GO YOU ARE BEING USED.

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lol ya know you want to say something :D

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They confuse me too.:eek::eek::eek::D:D:D

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theres many things i WANT to say, but chose not to for the sake of others;)

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let me guess beagle.... most girls use guys to go to the movies, get nice things, to be complimented a lot and are mostly in love with their wallet..... well there i'd have to agree with you.... those girls give me a bad rep. thats why i gotta fight extra hard. i ALWAYS pay for dinner ALWAYS pay for the movies ALWAYS pay for anything he wants and in return he picks up the tab for something extra special for me every once and a while.... just call me the sugga momma;)

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nah, the girls dont make us do that sort of thing , we just do it outta the goodness of our wallets;)

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So...What are you doing all next week?

Hey, a guy's got to eat, right? :D;)

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i'm canoeing over 100 miles starting tomorrow... wish me luck!

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You are hard -headed when it comes to returning PM lol

Good luck sis *hugs*