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Just wanted everyone out there to know that i won't be posting on the board for a while due to the fact that a divorce is stirring so i will be leaving my home. with it my wife and kid, a 3-year old baby boy, that i love more than anything in this world. the 12-year old is my step son who has always hated me so that part i won't miss. i will also leave her the house and it's contents, inlcuding my beloved big screen tv, my computer, my dog, and that's not all folks, a brand new pool that i just bought her and the kids this past summer. what hurts the most is the fact that i (not her and i) just remodeled the whole house and put a new roof on the place. also dug 119 post holes (by hand) for the brand new privacy fence that i installed just this past summer. it's a good thing i have a cabin close by because if not, i would be living in my truck. i mean we've had problems in the past but this comes as a complete shock to me. i know she doesn't have a boyfriend or anything, she thinks i drink too much. well maybe so but i'm not violent, verbally abusive, nothing. very mellow. i don't get drunk everyday don't get me wrong, but i do stop at the vets club after a hard days work for a few with the "boys"..............get off at five home by six. the sad part is the only thing i'll miss is seeing my son everyday when he wakes up and every night when he goes to sleep. that's gonna hurt!!!

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Good luck! Hope to hear from you soon! I hope things work out for you....Jim

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the contractor,

I am sorry about your situation. Maybe in time it will work out.

Best of luck.

Natural

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Man that sucks and I know where your at been through it three times but not cause of drinking but because of my wife cheating. I really hope you can get this worked out, living with out my kids was horrendous all I could do was cry and reach for the bottle. If all it would take was to give up the drinking Id do it in a heart beat for my kids. I am sorry and I know that I dont know the whole story but living with out my kids was the hardest thing I had to do in my life cause at that time my kids were my life. I am now 54 years old and my kids all have familys of there own and Im the #1 grandpa now. If there anything I can do to help man just email me I will do all that I can possibly do. Good luck man!

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SORRY TO HERE THAT IBEEN THREW THAT NOTHING MORE THEN NOT BEING ABLE TO SEE YOUR KID FOR ALL ITS WORTH MYBE SHE JUST NEEDS A BREAK,, SOMTIMES YOU NEVER KNOW WHATS GOINING ON IN THEIR MIND, ME AND MY WIFE GOT BACK TOGETHER AFTER ALMOST A7 MONTHS AND BEEN FINE FOR OVER 1/12 YEARS AND ARE GOING TO HAVE BABY IN JUNE.. SO KEEP YOUR HEAD UP ,, MYBE THINGS WILL FALL BACK IN PLACE

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Sad situation, but it sounds like you need to quit drinking.

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Well, not trying to come down on ya and I'm no pro but I have been around the block and tipped a few bottles back. To start off with, two things in your post jumped out at me to lead to one conclusion.

"My bloved big screen TV"
"She thinks I drink too much"

You need to reorginize your priorities. If you wanna save your marriage which you should for your little boy, tell her you'll quit drinking and sideline that TV and go to some marriage counceling. Even if you don't think you need it the mere effort will mean something to her. Let me guess have you heard something like "I'm tired of not feeling special"?

Think of what you would feel like if she and your boy were suddenly gone and I'm not talking about her booting you and how your feeling right now, I mean the sheriff knocking at your door late one night and coming in and asking you to sit down. Think about that then think about how you feel about her. If that brings tears to your eyes and makes you shudder, you still have some power right now, quit drinking, clear your head, write to yourself it'll help you sort things out, and go to her and tell her how you feel and that it aint over if you have anything to say and do about it.

Metro

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I've been there recently. The only thing I can tell you is that do whatever it takes to keep your family intact. For me it took a lot of effort to remove my pride etc. and go to counseling at our church. Talk things out (not argue) and listen to what she is saying. Life is not perfect, but its pretty darn good and getting better every day. Email me if you need someone to talk to. I'll pray for you too!

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best of luck brother, and if either one of you (husband or wife) thinks anything is a problem in a relationship, guess what it is, my hopes and prayers are with you....

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I wont comment ,just pray for you and your family,cant hurt