what do i do???
 

ok guys, what do you do.. i have a maine bear scheduled for next week, but girlfriend has pneumonia. and can bearly LOL get out of bed. no one to stay with her. do you stay home, or let her fend for herself?

RE: what do i do???
 

do what you think you should do.....if your not serious with her end it and go hunt.....but if you truely love her be a man and stay by her side like you should...theres always next year......i think staying with her will score some major points too...

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Wow, talk about your tough situation!........I think Mauser wise beyond his years has the answer though. If ya love her, then ya gotta stay. (Or find SOMEONE to stay with her! :D)
If it' s pretty casual, talk to her about it, ask forgiveness and when you see an opening RUN!
Just joking on that last part.......only you can decide this one.

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Hire a nurse and a couple of assistants to stay with her.:D It would be worth the money.

Scott Meier
White Oak Lodge

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Barnes, that' s the kind of answer i was looking for!! i could go in oct., but the baiting season will be over with by then, and i don' t want to miss it. could ask er friends to look in on her everyday.....

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Pray that she gets better fast!
All kidding aside, if it' s serious between you two, then the answer should be obvious. If it' s not serious then there' s really no dilemma.

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Don' t listen to these guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![:o]

If she loves you - she should let you go hunting. It is a good test for HER, not for YOU. Go Hunt, be free, enjoy:D:D

Of course you and I will die old and very lonely;)

But our walls will be full[:-]:D

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rack, i' m with you. backround info... work constr., took summer off for a surgery she had, took care of her AND our two kids, returned after many years part time to college, part time at work,she is bed bound with cast AND double pneumonia. put kids( both younger than 4) on bus to daycare in morning. get back in afternoon, take care of everyone, etc, etc. oops, did i forget to mention ALL housework( meals, dishes, laundry, etc.?) i think dad gets a well deserved break, don' t you?

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I' m with Rack also...go on the hunt....she' ll get better no doubt.....consider....are you seriously going to marry this girl? You have to set the stage early.....some can say you should stay by her side...I say, she should want you to go....that' s how you know if your relationship is going to work....;)

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well since you stayed with her after her surgery, and there are different degrees of pnuemonia (excuse the spelling) i would say go hunting . and hope she understands you need a break once in a while !

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go hunting. if you stay home with her now she will expect it everytime she has the sniffles. break her in now and show her who' s the boss. there' s other ways to treat her nice besides giving up hunting for her, even if it' s only ONCE. if she stays with you after you going on the hunt anyway you have yourself a good woman. find out now before the church. just my 2 cents. good luck !

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HOLD IT!!! NO CHURCH, NO GD WEDDING!!! she hunts too. going to postpone until middle of oct, had to spend the cash other places this weekend. still going by myself. the friend, who is a guide in maine, says that he never starts hunting bear until oct. anyhow, and hasn' t missed yet in over 10 years. maybe i will combine it with a bowhunt for deer at the same time up there.

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then it works out great for you. you get to stay with her and go on your hunt. good luck on your hunt vtbuck. hope you bag a big one. :D