Moral Dilemma! Opinions please!
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Spike
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Hey guys hows it going
! So heres my deal... I've been going to the same shop for bows, guns, and everything else ever since I can remember, and my grandpa went there before me! They're a bowtech/diamond dealer, and they used to carry Hoyts which is where I got my current bow. I also just recently dropped $500 thereon a new t/c triumph.
Now the problem is this...I want an elite and they dont carry it! I know the bow tech there and want to go there for everything possible, including setting the bow up, rest, sight, arrows, just about everything. However I'd feel HORRIBLE walking in there with a brand new $800 bow that I bought somewhere else!! At the same time though, I cant afford to buy a bow that I dont love, im broke and in college and its gotta last me quite a while, not to mention I LOVE that z28!
Anyone else ever have a dilemma like this? Of course if bowtech ever ships those air raids that may just fix my problem... but I'm not going to assume anything
! So heres my deal... I've been going to the same shop for bows, guns, and everything else ever since I can remember, and my grandpa went there before me! They're a bowtech/diamond dealer, and they used to carry Hoyts which is where I got my current bow. I also just recently dropped $500 thereon a new t/c triumph.Now the problem is this...I want an elite and they dont carry it! I know the bow tech there and want to go there for everything possible, including setting the bow up, rest, sight, arrows, just about everything. However I'd feel HORRIBLE walking in there with a brand new $800 bow that I bought somewhere else!! At the same time though, I cant afford to buy a bow that I dont love, im broke and in college and its gotta last me quite a while, not to mention I LOVE that z28!
Anyone else ever have a dilemma like this? Of course if bowtech ever ships those air raids that may just fix my problem... but I'm not going to assume anything

#3
I think it is great that you this kind of loyality to a shop. I am sure it is because they have earned your trust and business. I would suggest talking to the guy there and explaining you are wanting a new bow and you have narrowed your choice to the AR and Z28. Ask him how long before BT starts shipping the AR, that you want to shoot one before making a final decision. Also, explain to him exactly what you explained to us. I am sure he will understand, knowing that you are not leaving him as a customer and giving him a chance to earn your business on this next bow. Having a chance to earn a customer's business is all a shop owner can expect.
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Spike
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Meanv2: Indeed he does have a few coming
I call every weekend hahaha!
Kickin: Yeah thats what I was thinking, I'll explain it to Joe (the tech) and let him know my feelings! But lets say the ar doesnt impress me, so I definately want the z28. Would it be rude to walk in there with a bare bow and buy new arrows, rest, and stab and want them to help me set it up? If I have to pay thats okay
I'd just feel bad about the whole thing! I have a good buddy whose father and both brothers bowhunt, when this shop dropped hoyt the father pretty much made them switch to bowtech haha, and I know at least one of em would rather be shooting a hoyt. That said I really cant afford to be in the same position! Especially when I'll be in IL for at least a week for bow this year!
I call every weekend hahaha!Kickin: Yeah thats what I was thinking, I'll explain it to Joe (the tech) and let him know my feelings! But lets say the ar doesnt impress me, so I definately want the z28. Would it be rude to walk in there with a bare bow and buy new arrows, rest, and stab and want them to help me set it up? If I have to pay thats okay
I'd just feel bad about the whole thing! I have a good buddy whose father and both brothers bowhunt, when this shop dropped hoyt the father pretty much made them switch to bowtech haha, and I know at least one of em would rather be shooting a hoyt. That said I really cant afford to be in the same position! Especially when I'll be in IL for at least a week for bow this year!
#5
I also think it's admirable that you have such loyalty, but the reality is if you want a certain product and they don't have it or can't get it then you must shop elsewhere. The fact that you plan to buy all the other stuff there is reason enough for them to consider you a loyal customer and treat you as such. Also, you understand that you'd have to pay for any services so you're on the right page in that respect.
That being said I'd still talk to them before hand so you both can work out and understand the whole situation. That way there won't be any reason for you to carry a guilt trip around on your shoulders.
That being said I'd still talk to them before hand so you both can work out and understand the whole situation. That way there won't be any reason for you to carry a guilt trip around on your shoulders.
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ORIGINAL: Lyncher68
Meanv2: Indeed he does have a few coming
I call every weekend hahaha!
Kickin: Yeah thats what I was thinking, I'll explain it to Joe (the tech) and let him know my feelings! But lets say the ar doesnt impress me, so I definately want the z28. Would it be rude to walk in there with a bare bow and buy new arrows, rest, and stab and want them to help me set it up? If I have to pay thats okay
I'd just feel bad about the whole thing! I have a good buddy whose father and both brothers bowhunt, when this shop dropped hoyt the father pretty much made them switch to bowtech haha, and I know at least one of em would rather be shooting a hoyt. That said I really cant afford to be in the same position! Especially when I'll be in IL for at least a week for bow this year!
Meanv2: Indeed he does have a few coming
I call every weekend hahaha!Kickin: Yeah thats what I was thinking, I'll explain it to Joe (the tech) and let him know my feelings! But lets say the ar doesnt impress me, so I definately want the z28. Would it be rude to walk in there with a bare bow and buy new arrows, rest, and stab and want them to help me set it up? If I have to pay thats okay
I'd just feel bad about the whole thing! I have a good buddy whose father and both brothers bowhunt, when this shop dropped hoyt the father pretty much made them switch to bowtech haha, and I know at least one of em would rather be shooting a hoyt. That said I really cant afford to be in the same position! Especially when I'll be in IL for at least a week for bow this year!
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ORIGINAL: Lyncher68
Hey guys hows it going
! So heres my deal... I've been going to the same shop for bows, guns, and everything else ever since I can remember, and my grandpa went there before me! They're a bowtech/diamond dealer, and they used to carry Hoyts which is where I got my current bow. I also just recently dropped $500 thereon a new t/c triumph.
Now the problem is this...I want an elite and they dont carry it! I know the bow tech there and want to go there for everything possible, including setting the bow up, rest, sight, arrows, just about everything. However I'd feel HORRIBLE walking in there with a brand new $800 bow that I bought somewhere else!! At the same time though, I cant afford to buy a bow that I dont love, im broke and in college and its gotta last me quite a while, not to mention I LOVE that z28!
Anyone else ever have a dilemma like this? Of course if bowtech ever ships those air raids that may just fix my problem... but I'm not going to assume anything
Hey guys hows it going
! So heres my deal... I've been going to the same shop for bows, guns, and everything else ever since I can remember, and my grandpa went there before me! They're a bowtech/diamond dealer, and they used to carry Hoyts which is where I got my current bow. I also just recently dropped $500 thereon a new t/c triumph.Now the problem is this...I want an elite and they dont carry it! I know the bow tech there and want to go there for everything possible, including setting the bow up, rest, sight, arrows, just about everything. However I'd feel HORRIBLE walking in there with a brand new $800 bow that I bought somewhere else!! At the same time though, I cant afford to buy a bow that I dont love, im broke and in college and its gotta last me quite a while, not to mention I LOVE that z28!
Anyone else ever have a dilemma like this? Of course if bowtech ever ships those air raids that may just fix my problem... but I'm not going to assume anything
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ORIGINAL: OHbowhntr
Trust me, if you're looking at spending that kind of "Bill" on a bow, you're not really a BROKE college student. I used to deal in guns to make money in college, made some pretty decent coin off of guns that I bought cheap and sold high, I wish I could have some of them back, but had to buy books, and pay tuition, etc. If you're shop owner holds it against you that you went somewhere else for a bow he doesn't carry, then he really doesn't like you as much as your money!!!! The shop I go to appreciates my business, he knows I buy and sell stuff on line, he commends me for some of the good deals I get, he doesn't see anything wrong with trying to get good deals, when I ask him what would he get he shows me stuff that is reasonably priced, sometimes stuff that is just plain cheap, but good stuff. That's how I ended up with $8 stabilizers on my $700 bows, because they are CHEAP, and are GOOD!!!
ORIGINAL: Lyncher68
Hey guys hows it going
! So heres my deal... I've been going to the same shop for bows, guns, and everything else ever since I can remember, and my grandpa went there before me! They're a bowtech/diamond dealer, and they used to carry Hoyts which is where I got my current bow. I also just recently dropped $500 thereon a new t/c triumph.
Now the problem is this...I want an elite and they dont carry it! I know the bow tech there and want to go there for everything possible, including setting the bow up, rest, sight, arrows, just about everything. However I'd feel HORRIBLE walking in there with a brand new $800 bow that I bought somewhere else!! At the same time though, I cant afford to buy a bow that I dont love, im broke and in college and its gotta last me quite a while, not to mention I LOVE that z28!
Anyone else ever have a dilemma like this? Of course if bowtech ever ships those air raids that may just fix my problem... but I'm not going to assume anything
Hey guys hows it going
! So heres my deal... I've been going to the same shop for bows, guns, and everything else ever since I can remember, and my grandpa went there before me! They're a bowtech/diamond dealer, and they used to carry Hoyts which is where I got my current bow. I also just recently dropped $500 thereon a new t/c triumph.Now the problem is this...I want an elite and they dont carry it! I know the bow tech there and want to go there for everything possible, including setting the bow up, rest, sight, arrows, just about everything. However I'd feel HORRIBLE walking in there with a brand new $800 bow that I bought somewhere else!! At the same time though, I cant afford to buy a bow that I dont love, im broke and in college and its gotta last me quite a while, not to mention I LOVE that z28!
Anyone else ever have a dilemma like this? Of course if bowtech ever ships those air raids that may just fix my problem... but I'm not going to assume anything

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Nontypical Buck
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So he typically doesn't carry this bow, but why couldn't he order one for you anyway since you are willing to buy it from him and have been a good customer to him? I think this is typical of small shops. They just like to sell you what they have on hand and don't like to order anything special for people. Many people try to convince us that we should support the small shop owners over the WalMart's, Cabela's and Gander's, but in my opinion if they won't get us what we really want we should not be shy about going elsewhere to someone who will.
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ORIGINAL: Lyncher68
Believe me im broke!! The only reason I can afford a bow at the moment is because Ive been busting my ass doing firewood every weekend to afford it... I pay for my own school aswell so I have basically zero dollars to spend, aside from the bow money. After all...priorities
ORIGINAL: OHbowhntr
Trust me, if you're looking at spending that kind of "Bill" on a bow, you're not really a BROKE college student. I used to deal in guns to make money in college, made some pretty decent coin off of guns that I bought cheap and sold high, I wish I could have some of them back, but had to buy books, and pay tuition, etc. If you're shop owner holds it against you that you went somewhere else for a bow he doesn't carry, then he really doesn't like you as much as your money!!!! The shop I go to appreciates my business, he knows I buy and sell stuff on line, he commends me for some of the good deals I get, he doesn't see anything wrong with trying to get good deals, when I ask him what would he get he shows me stuff that is reasonably priced, sometimes stuff that is just plain cheap, but good stuff. That's how I ended up with $8 stabilizers on my $700 bows, because they are CHEAP, and are GOOD!!!
ORIGINAL: Lyncher68
Hey guys hows it going
! So heres my deal... I've been going to the same shop for bows, guns, and everything else ever since I can remember, and my grandpa went there before me! They're a bowtech/diamond dealer, and they used to carry Hoyts which is where I got my current bow. I also just recently dropped $500 thereon a new t/c triumph.
Now the problem is this...I want an elite and they dont carry it! I know the bow tech there and want to go there for everything possible, including setting the bow up, rest, sight, arrows, just about everything. However I'd feel HORRIBLE walking in there with a brand new $800 bow that I bought somewhere else!! At the same time though, I cant afford to buy a bow that I dont love, im broke and in college and its gotta last me quite a while, not to mention I LOVE that z28!
Anyone else ever have a dilemma like this? Of course if bowtech ever ships those air raids that may just fix my problem... but I'm not going to assume anything
Hey guys hows it going
! So heres my deal... I've been going to the same shop for bows, guns, and everything else ever since I can remember, and my grandpa went there before me! They're a bowtech/diamond dealer, and they used to carry Hoyts which is where I got my current bow. I also just recently dropped $500 thereon a new t/c triumph.Now the problem is this...I want an elite and they dont carry it! I know the bow tech there and want to go there for everything possible, including setting the bow up, rest, sight, arrows, just about everything. However I'd feel HORRIBLE walking in there with a brand new $800 bow that I bought somewhere else!! At the same time though, I cant afford to buy a bow that I dont love, im broke and in college and its gotta last me quite a while, not to mention I LOVE that z28!
Anyone else ever have a dilemma like this? Of course if bowtech ever ships those air raids that may just fix my problem... but I'm not going to assume anything


