if you did what was right to you in your heart, which i think you did, you did the right thing. if you decide later there was a better way to deal with it, then you learned from your decisions. will rogers said something like" good decisions come from experience. experience usually comes from making bad decisions." i think he's right. so just let it sit for a while and make up your own mind. if people agree, or don't, it doesn't matter. you're the only one living in there. a man has got to be able to make decisions and make up his own mind about things.