ORIGINAL: MK-M-GOBL
You lived out of state and don't even hunt in the area that your "good friend" for many many years hunts in. It's a spot he's hunted for 10+ years and has taken a few whoppers from and every opening morning tags his first deer from. Your friend moved out of state but still returns each year to bowhunt and you know these areas through him and shed hunt there. You end up finding a nice set with in 100 to 150 yards of his stand. Question 1, Is that area now your new hunting area and is the deer now "your deer" because you found it's shed? Question 2, If you knew he was going to hunt it the coming up week, would you jump in days before and kill a buck he was after the year before? Question 3, Do you see "respect" and "trust" two things that are a part of "hunter ethics"
Now I understand I don't own the deer that run the woods nor do make any claims on deer I see until my arrow/bullet ends it days of walking the woods. To me it's a RESPECT/TRUST issue! I've never had to stoop so low or stab a buddy in the back for anything let alone a deer[:-]. I'm feel I'm a good enough hunter that I don't need to jump on somebody else's honeyholes they've worked hard for. I find my own areas to hunt in and rely on my own skills.
Question 4, Now, what would do or how would you feel if it was a family member that did this to you?
I felt betrayed
1. If your friend says that he is OK with you hunting the same area he hunts then you will both share the woods
and the deer in the woods.
2. If he knows you'll be hunting there and is OK with it, there is no need to feel like you're killing
his deer. If he is a true friend he will be just as happy if you kill a deer instead of him.
3. Respect and Trust are not only parts of hunting ethics but also friendship. As I said before, if he respects you and trusts you then he should have no problem with you hunting in the same area and he shouldn't be mad if you kill a deer there.
4. My father shot a 4x4 whitetail out of a stand I placed for
us this past spetember. We had both seen this buck on several occasions in the previous months and we had both agreed that if one of us got a shot at him we would take it. I was extremely happy to see him get it, though i would have liked to have gotten it myself. The buck scored a little over 120" inches. I didn't get a buck this season, but knowing my dad got a nice buck was enough for me.
Question; I must have missed something in your story/questions... Why is it you feel betrayed?