Well i'm not going to give a opinion about the whole age thing aside from i think if maturity is there on both sides, more power to both then. As for the whole hot or not. I think its what counts on the inside rather then the outside. Sure a person can be "hot" in terms of looks but "not" in the whole personality department. I've dated girls in the past that a shallow guy wouldn't even look once at but they were beautiful in the inside. I will admit, i'm not the best looking guy in the town but my personality makes up for any "lack of hot looks" by a shallow person's standards. Ok now that i'm preaching on, i'll stop now lol