Bummer to hear about the guns. As for your dad, yeah I know the feeling and i'm not going to preach to you because its not my thing. I lost my dad a year (and 4 days) ago and i wish i didn't put him and my mom through half the stuff i did when i was younger lol. Dad's are a pain in the butt sometimes but enjoy it while you can is all i can say. Worse comes to worst, i'm sure we all will be a pain in our kid's butts