RE: Shoot it or dont shoot it???
Another aspect to toss out is how often you get the chance or even SEE deer. Many of the "hold out for bigger" folks see MANY deer a year or a day. In some areas, simply having ONE deer in bow range per season is good.
You say you hunted alot and have had chances at two does. I would be looking to shoot the first legal deer you get the chance at. I haven't shot tons of deer, probably around 10 total, but I still take pretty much every legal shot chance I get. I won't shoot a little guy early in the year, but I might towards the end if the freezer is empty. If it has visible anterls, then the arrow is gonna be flying!
--Bob