Well I live in Amber, which is 20 or 30 mins South of El Reno. My grandfather grew up in Calumet so we have alot of hunting land. The last name is Griffith. It is approximately 7 1/2 miles north and 2 1/2 miles west of Calumet. My girlfriend's brother and his wife live in Calumet, She is the high school girls basketball coach. Their last name is South.