Lady Forge I hate to say this but it's time to find a new dealer & a new bow to shoot. I could never imagine Hoyt, mathews, pse or anyone else ever telling a dealer to grind down the limbs to fix a design flaw. also to blame the rest is crazy, I have never heard that one before! I would also be mad about the dents & dings, that was really bad that they did that. I would get the bow fixed, touch up the dings with paint & then sell it. move on to another bow & dealer that will give you good service.