When it comes to handguns, look for the gun you feel the most comfortable with. I see it all the time. Someone buying the latest and greatest semi and it doesn't fit their hand or they can't handle the recoil. Go to the gun store and pick up a few guns. Make sure the one you want is the right size for you, and that it fits. Don't worry about it being a revolver or semi at this point. Just find the one that FITS your hand. Don't worry about caliber at this point either. Any gun can be lethal regardless of the caliber. I do agree that a revolver is the safest if you are new to guns. Easy to use and most likely less expensive. I always have to laugh when someone goes and buys a gun that doesnt' fit them or isn't the right caliber and they can't hit the broad side of a barn with it but bought it cuz they heard it's a great gun or got info from some magazine.