The pro shop gave me all kinds of crap. They were even laughing about women hunters. I wanted to sound a bit knowing before I went back.
I do agree you need to get that bow and your daughter to a pro shop to have the bow set up for her, but.... Don't bother going back to that shop. Find another one that has decent people working in it. Sounds like that bunch of numbskulls thinks archery should be a 'guys only' thing, and would be just as likely to intentionally screw things up to discourage her.
They need their butts kicked out of the business, IMO.