Atlas dont take this wrong just another point of veiw but you say its not a competition? then why are you saying your the best?Iam getting the feeling that wether you see it or not it or want to admit it you and your brothers have turned it into just that a cpmpetition and iam sure there is some ribbing and ball busting going on.I think i would lighten up on him and let him work out his own demons and i think if you dont want it to be a competition then drop iam the Best slogan and maybe he might come to you for help just mho.