RE: 10 or 12 3.5?
I make someone mad everytime I say this but, all that firepower is not necessary and I believe it encourages people to take questionable shots, resulting in lost/wounded birds. That being said, 12ga 3 1/2 is easier to find shells for than a 10ga, but the 10, other factors being equal, will kick less. Both will kill turkeys, but so will a .410 in capable hands.