I guess you never had the pleasure of hunting deer where there is posted ground and a lot of houses that are owned by people from NY and NJ. The vast majority don't like hunting and don't want any hunters close to their property.
Then the landowners need to make a choice then, don't they? Either they allow hunting (if only bowhunting, so be it) or shut up and live with the deer problem. See, that is the problem with alot of folks nowadays, they bitch and moan about something and then tie your hands when you try to do something about the situation. Everything must be "politically correct". Probably alot of "animal lovers" out in that area. It's funny how they don't want you to "murder bambi" but they scream and yell when they hit one with their car or lose all of their expensive shrubbery to a feast one night. I see more of your position now, I just don't think it applies to my area and I support AR in my case. I know it is easier said than done but you should wash your hands of your hunting area and devote your efforts in an area that is more hunter friendly. Seems like you are in a situation where it is damned if you do, damned if you don't. Good luck in finding a solution.