RE: getting her to hunt
Just leave her home. Let the hunting be your escape. I've been married to the same lovely for 35 years. There's no way she's going out in the cold and mud and dirt and bugs and then stick her hands in some dead creatures gut. That's OK with me. For 30 years I hunted alone... the last 4 or 5 I've had Len. It was love at first sight.[8D]
P.S. If she doesn't want to hunt.... why in the hell are you trying to make her into something she doesn't want to be? My wife loves to shop,... I hate it... she shops, I hunt... it all evens out.