I'm really sorry about that bobcat. We have talkedabout this before. That must be horrible. Not many people know what it was like to be in your shoes when that happened, but we all tried to help you feel better. And for j3, I am also sorry to hear about your dad cheating on your mom. That is the same reason that dad and mom divorced for me except thast it was mom that cheated. But oh well, now I live with my dad and he is married to a very nice woman who takes really good care of him, so I guess it was for tha best. BB