RE: Finding the right grip consistently
I curl my pinky into my palm when I grab my bow and that keeps my palm lined up consistantly all the time. Then I just open my hand when I draw so that I am shooting with a relaxed hand... once there is pressure on the bow, it will stay wherever you put it to start with.
A sight level really helps too - that way you can see if you are canting the bow at all.
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SuperX