RE: .243 or .308??
I'd pick the .308 over the .243 if you are going to be taking longer shots.
All the calibers that use the .308 case are good deer getters!
.243, .260, 7MM-08 and the .308! You really can't go wrong with any of them for deer! The .260 and 7MM-08 give you great .308 preformance with flat trajectory too! Give 'em a look!