Well good news, I talked to the guy and he is so happy I've killed 7 that he doesn't care if I spotlight or not. He said just kill as many as I could. (Of course I threw in there I had a 3 year old son at home and really couldn't be leaving him to go spotlight late at night.)
He told me about some bad exp. he had with hunters on his land in the past. Tearing up fields with ATV's drinking, etc. I've hunted there since Sept. this year and he's happy with me.
Ngtshade have you donated any deer? I was wondering about taking them to M. R. Griffin & Sons in stokesdale. They take part in the FHFH but I haven't been able to contact them. They are a lot closer to me than the other place.