Just walked in from firing off my new T/C Impact twice. Never owned a muzzleloader and have only shot one twice in my life. Now that y'all know about my lack of experience here's my dilemma. I'm shooting .45cal 250gr Hornady XTP's(.452") w/Harvester Crushed Rib (red) sabots. They are EXTREMELLY hard to seat. I've read that tight is good but I think this is beyond tight. I've watched others load their muzzleloaders and they went through nothing like I just did. What to do?