My ex used to complain( For lack of a better word on a family website!!!) and it came up in court. I just sat back and let her attny go with it. My attny then brought out all the furniture, merchandise and home furnishings that she had bought her kids on the sneek without me knowing. Her attny then leaned over and whispered to her. She then decided that my loading stuff wasn't quite so important after all, seeing I had receipts of her stuff that almost tripled my expenditures!!! My current g-friend loves to reload with me for she then gets to go shooting and even suggests that we are getting low on a particular component for 1 of "her" favorite weapons and we go shopping!!! AND SHE IS A CITY GIRL!!! Go figure!!!