I started when I was 16 with shot shell reloading. Had a job that paid me fairly well so I went to a local gun shop bought a Mec 650 Jr a thousand 209 primers 8 pound keg of red dot and a bag of wads bag of shot for my 16ga shot gun. I still have the Mec and shot gun today, try to find an supply of 16ga shot shells in stores today!!!
My mom asked if the powder was dangerous I told her about as much as the 500 gallon barrel of gasoline out by the tractor shed setting next to the 500 gallons of diesel.
I was reloading when I got married and my wife knew before hand. She is fine with it even though I probably have close to 25 pounds of different powders and several thousands of primers.
As long as I am doing stuff in my own home the and wife is fine with it the rest of the family can KMA.
Al