well thank you very much for the kind words huntingirl, so how was the actual funeral and all that? good sevice? or did you go..I' d understand if you didn' t...but you can all be happy again anyway!!! I' ve come back from the grave and am now among the living dead!!! so you really wouldn' t want to ever meet me in person now(I really smell bad..) but I can still talk to all of you online!!!