I doubt he was seeking help, he probably has more experience with handguns than you do. He ask if anyone had experience with the the .357 Sig or a small .40, not recommendations on other calibers or a letcture about how many guns he should own, nor does he owe you a what you think would be a good answer. I have experience with both, I carried a Glock .357 Sig as a duty weapon on a duty belt and I have carried the Kahr in my post for a long time concealed. I like it, I still qualify with it yearly back to 25 yards. It is good concealed carry handgun. Both the .357 Sig and the .40 S&W great calibers and certainly better than a .380. There was a need to respond to that nonsensical rant.