Personally, of the one's you listed I would get the ADL.

But if I was in your shoes, I'd seriously consider a Rem Model 7 or Mountain Rifle. .243 is a great round, with proper shot placement deadly as can be. I used to be a non-believer, but my son has used one the past 8yrs (since age 9) and it sure puts em down just fine. 7mm-08 is a nice round too, and certainly not too much for your daughter to handle. I might lean towards that just for the additional versatility that cal adds. Either one will kill whitetails just fine.