Wow Thanks everyone I am searching these suggestions. Guess what though my Hubby suprised me this morning with a rossi rifle circuit judge 44 mag revolver. It is light weight and I like the fiber sights. I'm just not sure what kind of range I will have with it. I'm going to take it out this afternoon and see what I can do.

I have been trying to figure how much weight I can reasonably hold, anything over 8lbs is difficult and it seems to make a difference on how long the barrel is. Seems like barrel length of 20" or more is causing discomfort in my neck as well. I guess it is because it changes how far I reach to hold it but if it is light enough it might make different.

I have a list now of firearms to try out, now I'm going to the gun shop to see if they have any available for me to hold and see, then see if they can order any in L/H

This getting old thing is horrible.