Even if you don't reload, there are lots of guys around that do. If you'd be willing to front up the dies and components (brass, powder, bullets, primers), you wouldn't have any trouble finding a guy to work up a load with you. Save you the headache of buying, owning, housing, and using a full reloading set up. Heck, I've split the cost of dies for guys in the past on rounds I didn't even own rifles for, on the agreement that I keep the dies.

Now, onto your question about the TSX vs Accubond vs whatever else, the answer, in my book at least, is pretty simple:

If you have doubts, then the question is moot. Don't use it.

The best thing that can happen is that your experience is different than what you're hearing about and your elk goes down quickly. The worst thing that can happen is that your experience CONFIRMS the bad experiences you're hearing about, and your prize bull runs off to never be recovered.