Sorry to hear of your loss Gregrn43 , True friends are hard to come by. The advice you gave is very true . We went to a bow shoot in Texas and I started to have abdomen pain's so when we got back home I went to the doc , Come to find out I had two herias one on the right( cosing most of the pain ) an one on the left , Then they told me about the Aortic Aneurysm (that was about a 5mm).They were able to repair the Aneurysm and the right hernia at the same time and then a few hours right after surgery I passed a blood clot through my heart and it ended up in my lunges . Sure am glad that I had went an got check out. Heck, I'm only 48 myself.