I know what you mean, nomercy. Once, when bending over, I had a kid ask me what was sticking out of my butt! I told him he didn't want to know! When it comes to concealing on the small of your back, standing upright and sitting are about the only times that you are going to be able to fully conceal. For that reason, if I am going to have my shirt tucked in, I either carry in my pocket or with a shoulder rig (if I am wearing the correct jacket...all jackets don't conceal effectively for me). If having my shirt untucked, I keep it on my hip. If my shirt isn't long enough to cover it up at all times, back to the pocket. Tennessee has an open-carry policy. If folks wouldn't look at me funny walking into church (or any other place, for that matter) with my .45 strapped to my hip, I'd do it everyday! But, being a youth minister, I have a feeling some parents/random folks would take issue with that. Therefore I keep it hidden. There are a few places that I will not go without open carrying...backwoods places with some really rough folks. Other than that, I keep it concealed. Rarely, however, in the small of my back for two reasons; 1) it isn't very comfortable to me, 2) it isn't always effective in concealing.