Not everyone has the best way with words, but that doesn;t mean thier message isn' t sincere or can be learned from. I think no matter what anyone writes someone will take offense to it. My point proved by bh89 taking swIH wrong when he was showing total support for him. Life is not sugar coated, some people tell things how they see them. If one is so easily offended by a typing from an internet message board then God help them out in the real world where people' s feeling truly get hurt. Its one thing to go out of ones way to intentionally stir trouble, its another when a post comes across harsh due to someone making a mistake.