Go to this site, and click on kits in the upper right corner of the page. Then click on Tanning kits. The kit for deer hides will work on your yote too.
http://www.mckenzietaxidermy.com/
For fleshing, a pressure washer works great. It makes a mess but peels the flesh right off. The Turbo style nozzle works best.
I would avoid the facial areas with the pressure washer and use a skife there.
Good Luck!