I am just going to let things cool down for an week or two.
Agreed. Actually, I'd like to know who told you this was a major problem and that you shouldn't be posting
I will not bring names in, there are only two people who really made it an big problem. an 3rd brought it up but in an manner that was not rude and I replied to it in the same manner, explaining a few things. it ended it there on an friendly note.