Originally Posted by jrfrmn

I have tried that. He listens to papa, get your foot in the door and then you don't need him anymore. Stay neutral and do what ever you want. It's your place now. You have your own permission. The family friend of the property owner seems to think he has free run and control as if he owns the place when I have been there 25 or more yrs than him. I was out for about 3yrs for minor medical reasons and it didn't take long to lose my position after putting all that time in the place. MY ADVICE TO ANYBODY IS NEVER, NEVER TAKE ANYONE TO YOUR PLACE, UNLESS YOU HAVE TOTAL CONTROL OVER WHEN AND WHY AND HOW LONG THEY WILL BE THERE. Better yet they can only go with you and only with you, or it will no longer be your place. People don't appreciate the sacrifice you make for them and pretty soon every Toms harry dick will be there. Once its out of control, there is usually no getting it back.