My pop was a lot harder on me. Its different with boys and spouses. No matter what you say the way you teach someone is more or less the way you learned it. I didnt notice at first but this DOES NOT WORK with your SPOUSE. Teaching Mrs Podunk to shoot and hunt has made me realize that Im as much of a hardazz as my dad was. Ive had to change alot of my ways to keep her interested and avoid us fighting.