"because if I don't shoot it, my neighbor will" needs to stop being said/practiced.
The more neighbors who stop practicing the more bucks that will get lucky and make it another year.
I'm not saying wait for a 180" deer in an area that really only can produce a 130", but don't take a spike or button buck simply because your neighbor would...
I say if you want meat, shoot a doe. Nothing wrong with being a meat hunter or a trophy hunter. I think you can be both. I think almost all trophy hunters still eat their trophy.