SJADVENTURES-First when i showed my son the ropes about deer hunting scrapes rubs trails that lead to bedding and trails that lead to feeding areas i then told him he should find his own spot that way he'll learn more about it if it's a good spot or bad and no i didn't help him put up his ladder stand and he was 14 then and if my wife wants to hunt i would do the same .Thats like me taking her fishing and stand there taking her fish off the hook for her if she can't take her own fish off she doesn't need to be out there . I take it your one of those guys that take someone hunting do all the work then wake them up to go hunting right .