Let someone else load your round or not! Then you concentrate on squeeze, squeeze, squeeze. Even pressure! When you have no round in the chamber and you dry fire and don't flinch you will have it licked. This is how I learned and you feel pretty silly when you flinch and your buddy didn't put the round in. You will be surprised how accurate you become when the gun goes off and you are surprised. Treat all guns as though they are loaded at all times!!