bronko22000
This is only my opinion and I am one that really thought the 200XTP to be a GREAT bullet... the Gold Dot has proven to be much more durable that the the Honady's. The Gold Dot is a bonded contolled expansion bullet, along the lines of a Nosler Partiton - surely not a stong as the Nosler, but close.
I would suggest before you get the .41/210 you try a few and see if they will load for you. They also make a .40/180 grain Gold Dot but I have a prblem getting them to be accurate at longer ranges in a 1/28 twist (they are to short). In my Knight 45 with a 1/30 twist they are lights out.