I have no problem what so ever with you telling your friend what to shoot and what not to shoot. Every year we usually get together the last few days of the deer season here and do some small, slow deer drives with our bows (we've done well too). On some of the lands we get permission on the owners tell us what we can shoot and what we can't, some are doe only spots and others are big buck only spots. When we push the woods my dad owns (the woods I hunt) the ground rules are set before the hunt. No small bucks to be shot, only big guys. So I'm selfish according to some of you on here?