annika, would ya rather just have every body shake our heads in a agreement with him, even though time and time again people pointed out that what he was saying couldn't in any way shape or form be true. Would you rather he go through life fibbing at every turn, while trying to "fit in". Or is it better to give him a stern piece of advise in hopes that he learns that pullin' the wool over his buddys eyes can be done from time to time, but in the real world, it ain't gonna get him any where. It is better to speak the truth, only when you know the truth, then it is to beleive you know the truth and speak the un-truth.
I think OHbowhnter's advice was well spoken.