hey thanks everyone... everything is mostly all better now... like i said before all i need is a little surgery now to explore and repair... and I did mean to thank you Red Hawk for the card... it was very sweet of you... so thanks... i' m glad that i have an alternate family on here when i want to escape mine... i' ve been coming here for three years now and although most of the population has changed the people keep getting better and better so thank you everyone