Pat I' m not exactly sure what to say bro. You were here for me more so than a lot of my family when my dad past away three weeks ago. As far as I am concerned anyone who is offended by you and your sons first trip can go jump off a log. I can't say I feel your exact pain but one very similar. I admire you for your dedication and keeping your word. Bro you got my number if you ever want to talk you know what to do. Just remeber what you told me about your son and my dad being together!!!!!!!!!