Nothing nasty involved. Guys are always getting stuff from, like Victoria's Secret for their wives/girlfriends. But they're really getting it for themselves to be honest. Well I wanted to get something like that to wear for my husband, but nobody sells anything like that in my size, for obvious reasons. But I was able to find a lady who would alter two really cool nightgowns, one in burgunday and one in dark green, down to my size. He loved 'em.