I don't care what you buy for your son, just the fact that you are willing to spend time with him is what counts! I am in Law Enforcement and I deal with so many kids that their parents never spend quality time with them, so anytime I hear of someone taking time for their kids, it does my heart good. My son is 18 and right now that is one of the few things we have in common and I take every opportunity to take him to the range, notonly to instruct him, but to build on our relationship. Of course this also goes for daughters, wives and other family members that may enjoy shooting. Regrets are like harsh words that come out of our mouths, there is nothing we can do to make them go away. So spend as much time with your kids as you can.